Wednesday, July 22, 2009

bebelang yang panjang di kala bosang...

Eheh mood bercakap teganu gaya melampau…

Nak updet psl ape ye.. cite weekend ek? Emmm.. Last weekend, saye blk
senai jumpe hubby. Slps 2 weekend die yg dtg cni, then my turn la plak
nak ke sane. Sian lak die penat asek nak ke sini. Kebetolan my sis in
law konvo kt UMT ari kamis, so bolela tumpang blk skali. Tak pyh nak
susah2 naik bas. Kebetolan lg, ari isnin cuti keputeraan sultan
Terengganu. Maka terus la saye mengambil cuti ari ahad utk
memanjangkan weekend tersebut. Hehe…

So ape aktiviti time blk johor? Tade ape sgt pon. Kebanyakan mase
berehat dan bersantai kt umah kot. Hehe takpela bg can hubby rehat.
Lagipon ari jumaat mlm dan sabtu pagi tuh kami pegi umah pak ngah die.
His cousin, nonoy nikah sabtu pagi tu. Ramai la dpt jumpe sedare mara
belah my FIL. Ade yg dh familiar sbb dtg kenduri kami kt teganu dlu.
Ade gak yg baru nak kenal. Then, selesai majlis akad nikah dan mkn2
tu, kami trus blk batu pahat lak ke kg my MIL. Ade jemputan kenduri
kawen gak. Heeee 1st time blk kg neh. Memang best la, betol2 cm
kampong yg tgk dlm tv tu. Hehehe… (saye pon dok kg gak tp mcm lain
sket style die. kg kt teganu ngan kg kt johor tak same kot). Mcm2 buah
kutip, pulasan, rambutan, cempedak… oh iya, klu nak tau, saye tak
penah la mkn buah pulasan sblom ni. Penah dgr name jek, rupe die pon
cm tak sure cmne. Kali pertame dpt mkn, mase kt umah pak ngah die
jumaat mlm tu. Hahhaa  ape laaa… tp kannn, bile dh mkn pulasan, saye
rse cm pulasan lg best jek dr rambutan. Heee ni yg berangan nak tanam
pokok pulasan kt teganu ni…

Oh iya… time kt kg tuh gak, dpt mkn nasik ambeng slps sekian lame tak
jumpe. Dlu time kt utm adela gak skali skale mkn… best2. Suke sambal
goreng die tuh… (eh iye ke namenye sambal goreng??)

Tak lame pon blk kg. lps magrib kami dh blk senai semula. Takpe, lain
kali leh blk kg lagik. Raye taun ni pon cm raye kt johor jek? Ermm…ade
org dh senyum2 smpai tlinge kot bace statement neh? Huhuhu…

Ape lg aktiviti ek? Oh, tgk harry porter kt U mall ahad mlm. Hehe U
mall ni mall yg baru jek bukak kt tmn u. senangla budak utm pasni nak
tgk wyg dekat jekk. Tayah cm kami2 dlu, smpai ke jb pegi tgk wyg. Tp
cm lg best tgk kt cs jek. Hehe.. org pon cm tak ramai sgt la kt U mall
tu. Kedai2 pon tak best. Nmpk cm mall lame padahal baru jek bukak… wyg
pon tak bape glemer. MBO.. 1st time dgr name tu. Hehe… cite harry
porter tu plak cm tak bape nak menarek jek berbanding yg dlu2. Ke
perasaan saye jek ek? Entah… slame ni pon tadela minat sgt harry
porter. Tp kannnn… klu nak tgk wyg skg, baik gi tgk ice age kpd sape2
yg belom tgk ice age. Sgt best okeh… 5 star ++!!!

Esoknye, isnin pagi, hubby pagi2 dh gerak ke utm sbb kelas kul 8. Bas
saye kul 10.20 pagi, naik kt kulai. Kenela ayah yg tlg anta. Naik bas
siang sgtla boring. Nak tido pon takleh. Mase bas benti kt machap,
terpakse membeli bahan bacaan yg boleh mengantukkan diri bile membace.
Hehe. Beli majalah keluarga cover wardina dan anak2nye. Uh sgt best
tgk wardina yg still cantik wpon dh anak tiga. Saye pon mahu jd hot
mama cmtulaaa :p (brangan2 smbil tgk gamba).. smpai kerteh kul 6 ptg.
Sgt slow bas nye... penat..

Errr pjg lak citenye. Smpai ade budak ofis ni tegur bile nmpk saye
menaip pjg2. Die igt saye tulis emel kt sape la agaknye. Kan saye
update tru emel (cara mengcover kt ofis di samping alasan blogger yg
diblock). Esok dh kamis, tp tak rse excited pon sbb tak jumpe hubby
minggu ni. Maybe saye blk ke KT. Tgk la cmne. Oh ye, esok section saye
buat pot luck utk mkn tgh ari. Saye kene bwk ayam goreng. Tp ade lak
permintaan supaya buat ayam msk merah. Tgk la mood mane yg nak buat pg
esok. Klu bgn pon dh lmbt, goreng ayam dh la kot. Tgkla ape yg jadik
esok. Risau tak jd satu ape jek. Hahha.. Nnt klu rajin saye updet..

Orait2 kene stop membebel… nak sambung keje lak. Daaaa….

Thursday, July 16, 2009

THE RIGHT PERSON??

This is a very good article forwarded by a fren. Those who are still single may learn something from here... Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage...

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DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.

You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:

"God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."

EFFECTS OF COLD WATER

utk org yg suke minum ais (macam saye)....

Serangan Jantung dan Amalan Minum Air Panas ....

Kepada sesiapa yang suka minum AIS, artikel ini sesuai untuk anda baca. Sememangnya sedap minum air berAIS selepas makan.

Walaubagaimanapun, AIS akan membekukan makanan berminyak yang baru kita makan. Ia akan memperlahankan penghadaman kita. Bila lemak-lemak ini terbentuk di dalam usus, ia akan menyempitkan banyak saluran dan lama kelamaan ia akan menyebabkan lemak berkumpul dan kita semakin gemuk dan menuju ke arah mendapat pelbagai PENYAKIT.
Jalan terbaik...adalah untuk minum sup panas atau air PANAS/suam selepas makan.

* Nota penting tentang SERANGAN JANTUNG!!!

Anda patut tahu bahawa bukan semua tanda-tanda serangan jantung akan mula terasa pada tangan sebelah kiri. Berhati-hati juga pada permulaan sakit sedikit-sedikit pada bahagian atas dada anda. Anda mungkin tidak akan mengalami sakit dada pada serangan pertama serangan jantung. Keletihan dan berpeluh adalah tanda-tanda biasa. Malah 60% penghidap SAKIT JANTUNG tidak bangun selepas tidur. Marilah kita berwaspada dan berhati-hati.
Lebih banyak kita tahu, lebih cerah peluang kita untuk terus hidup...

** ermmm.. sedapnye teh aisss... huhuhu :((

Monday, July 13, 2009

rindulaaa.. mcm mane ye?

*percubaan mengupload byk2 gamba tru emel. mesti kuar sume kt atas ek? see...kan betol..
 
kt ofis blogger kene block. pc kt umah dh kong trus. mls nak repair dah kot. niat2 hati nak beli laptop baru tp tataula bile... so kt umah dh tak dptla nk bertenet. maka tak dptla nk merajinkan diri updet blog...
 
skg dh lps kul 5 pon. nk blk la jap lg. dok ofis lame2 pon takleh nak buat keje dh kot. huhu. em tp nak blk cpt2 bkn ade sape2 pon kt umah. smlm blk keje dijemput, arini drive sorg2 la. huuuu... mlm td anta hubby naik bas kt dungun. this weekend saye lak akan ke sane. weekend seterusnye? masih tak tahu lagi..
 
arini dh isnin... cptlaaa kamis muncul. huhu...